What biting your tongue really costs you ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏
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Hi ,
Staying quiet often feels like the safe option.
Not asking for the raise means you can't be told no.
Not saying what's actually bothering you means no argument, no tension, no awkward car ride home.
Not going after the thing you want most means you never have to fail.
So yeah. In the short-term it seems like not speaking up is the better option.
But that's only because your brain isn't showing you the long-term math.
The raise you don't ask for costs you actual money.
The help you don't ask for costs you actual hours.
The resentment you feel costs you the very relationships you think you're protecting.
A few days ago I told you about the three Speak Up Barriers holding you back from saying how you feel and asking for what you want.
Knowing yours is how you stop paying these hidden costs – and start getting what you want.
That's why I created this quiz. Three minutes, zero dollars, and you'll know exactly which Barrier has been running up your bill.
Talk soon,
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