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Hi, I'm Negesti!   I'm the sex toy writer here at BuzzFeed. I am from the good ol' midwestern state of Ohio, specifically Columbus (Go Bucks!). A few of my favorite things: movies (good and bad), shopping (IRL and online), astrology, psychology and human sexuality, and contemporary lit. I champion ALL bad book-to-film adaptations (looking at you, Twilight & Fifty Shades).      Photos: Negesti Kaudo My friends would describe me as..."so extra" or "dramatic" or "ridiculous" 🤪 — and I don't disagree. I'm a double Leo, so 'nuff said. I'm here to help make the world a better place, one orgasm at a time. Find out more about me and my work on IG @kaudonegesti.   Hope you enjoy my picks! Forwarded This Newsletter?     Think of WANT THIS as your own personal shopper! Each week, we'll have a new BuzzFeed Shopping editor who'll take you behind-the-scenes of what they're loving and what's at the top of their wishlist. Subscribe Now WHAT I'M LOVING NOW Big Leo Energy Balloon Banner — $14.95     I bought a balloon banner and matching banner from Ninalems Party for my birthday brunch this year, and it was a BIG HIT. The balloons were perfect for my photo booth and made for a fantastic backdrop, but the glitter banner added a certain oomph to the mimosa bar — all in all, a true Leo spectacle! Dainty & Minimalist Pave CZ Huggie Hoop Earrings — $11.45+   I've been looking for an ~everyday~ earring for my secondary ear piercings and came across this v v cute shop on Etsy: Ohana Jewels. I bought a pair of rose gold cubic zirconia huggie earrings and another pair of black cubic zirconia butterfly stud earrings — I like to wear them together for when my ears need a break, but both pairs make a perfect, minimalist statement piece. Kensington MP13 MacBook Magnetic Privacy Screen — $32.99   Imagine sitting in a coffee shop or restaurant researching sex toys and minding your own business when you find out the table behind you is watching your computer screen and eavesdropping on your discussion — that is my everyday when I want to WFH in public. So, I invested in a magnetic privacy screen! It snapped on with ease and I can walk away from my computer to grab coffee or search realistic dildos in public without fear. (Note in the GIF above how you can see exactly what I'm watching on TV...) Jasmine Coil Ponytail — $149+   My hair colorist sent me this on IG after I told her I wanted a designer ponytail for my birthday...most drawstring ponytails are made of synthetic hair, so difficult to take care of and toss in the trash when you're done. BUT THIS? The Jasmine Coil Ponytail matched my natural hair texture, gave me the volume I have always wanted (along with the length!) and I can wash it, put it away and bring it back out for the next time. I got so many compliments on the ponytail...I miss her already. ON MY WISHLIST The Emme Smart Case because taking birth control pills is a pain and I literally never remember, so I'm hoping this will help me keep my body in check smh. A hand-crafted geometric bookshelf from Hexagonica on Etsy. I already have one, but literally I now need another one, for the rest of my books, my TV and my future plants. By the time I finally choose to splurge on this vibrator, it may be 2022 but as the resident sex toy expert — THIS is the wand I want. It's gorgeous and it includes stickers and a travel bag 🤩🤪💦 The Peridot Palette by BH Cosmetics because A) birthday-related and B) please look at those greens and glitter shades — need it! As a renter, I am always looking for ways to make beige walls pop and have recently discovered removable wallpaper. I'm a big fan of Opalhouse patterns, so just waiting for the right space to cover the walls! This is a local jewelry boutique in Columbus, OH (also on Etsy) and they make lovely jewelry! I have a few pieces but no custom ones yet and they just dropped a customizable zodiac constellation line.   More From BuzzFeed Shopping Just 28 Things BuzzFeed Shopping Readers Are Loving Right Now 51 Problem-Solving Products That Require Minimal Effort 31 Things From Target That'll Do Jobs You Probably Didn't Even Know Needed To Be Done 29 Ways To Turn Your Outdoor Space Into Your New Favorite Hangout Spot 28 Things From Sephora With Such Impressive Reviews, You Just Might Be Inspired To Click *Add To Cart* 28 Things You *Shouldn't* Buy If You Want To Continue To Hate Your Wardrobe View our privacy notice and cookie policy.     BuzzFeed, Inc. 111 E. 18th St. New York, NY 10003   We hope you love the products we recommend! Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a small share of sales from the links in this email.   Unsubscribe